It’s time for another group posting of the Insecure Writer’s Support Group! Time to release our fears to the world or offer encouragement to those who are feeling neurotic. If you’d like to join us, click on the tab above and sign up. We post on the first Wednesday of every month. Every month, the organizers announce a question that members can answer in their IWSG Day post. Remember, the question is optional!!! Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!
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April 3 question – How long have you been blogging? (Or on Facebook/Twitter/Instagram?) What do you like about it and how has it changed?
It was 2014. At that stage, blogging was new on my radar, although it had been around as a medium for a while and had been taking off in the public eye for a few years. Enter the incredible Kristen Lamb, author and social media expert. I read one of her books, We Are Not Alone, about social media for authors (*I think this book is out of print, but contact the author). In her book, Kristen advocated authors should have blogs. She said that it is another form of writing and a discipline and that it helps us as authors to have to write an 800-word article a week. It flexes our writing muscles differently from writing fiction, and it’s good for us. At the same time, it’s building our brand and a fan base who, one day, might hopefully buy our books.
The idea of flexing a different writing muscle made sense to me. But there was a big problem; I was too scared to start. There was always a reason why not. Every time I considered the idea of blogging, I would put the brakes on by asking myself, what would I say each week? Who would care? Would it end up being another commitment I didn’t need? There were so many ways I could fall flat on my face. It was stepping further out of my comfort zone than I was used to.
For several years, I watched other writer friends start blogs without feeling any closer to starting my own.
Then, in 2014, for some reason, I leaped off the side of the pool and started posting, and I have posted every week ever since. I loved it instantly. I remember there was one week when I didn’t and that was when my computer system got hijacked by scammers. My poor sick computer went away to be cleaned of viruses and rebooted. I could not put out a blog post, and I felt bereft of my way of communicating with the world. What had started as a writing exercise had become a fully integrated, enjoyable, relaxing, satisfying, and creative part of my week.
By 2015, the blog was just one of seven social media sites I juggled, including Facebook, Twitter, Goodreads, and Slideshare. I felt I had to be everywhere, building my digital footprint.
Apart from my website, Facebook Author Page, YouTube channel, and LinkedIn, I was also building my email list and putting out a monthly newsletter to subscribers. It was a lot.
But in the last few years, I have changed as has the entire landscape of my involvement with social media. I think COVID-19 was a big part of that. Building a brand and selling books has taken a back seat in my mind – it’s no longer what’s most important. Life these days is about connecting with flesh and blood friends and family, writing stories, and living a creative life. I have closed nearly all my social media sites, including the Facebook Author Page – which I deleted last week.
I have retained my personal Facebook page for friends and family, my weekly blog, and my monthly newsletter for public content. The rest of my time is free for creative fiction and family life. There’s a greater sense of calm as if I’ve stopped chasing something.
There is a lot to like about social media. It is a necessary marketing tool for artists and entrepreneurs, more today than it ever has been, but by the same token, I believe it’s more vital than ever that we keep a healthy balance between our virtual and actual lives. We need to be the master of social media and not let it become the master of us.
What do you think? How do you feel about blogging/Instagram/Facebook?
Talk to you later.
Keep Writing!
Yvette Carol
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