It’s time for another group posting of the Insecure Writer’s Support Group! Time to release our fears to the world – or offer encouragement to those who are feeling neurotic. If you’d like to join us, click on the tab above and sign up. We post the first Wednesday of every month. I encourage everyone to visit at least a dozen new blogs and leave a comment. Your words might be the encouragement someone needs.


When the upper-ups at IWSG headquarters decided to bring in the Question of the Month, earlier this year, I admit to not exactly clapping my hands with glee. I opted out at first.

You see, I like to write every post from the point of view of sharing either what’s been going on for me, or what I’ve been thinking, or doing creatively, or experiencing through my kids and my family. As ‘the Question’ was only a suggestion, not a given, I decided to make my own choice as to this blog’s content.

I wanted to remain true to my ideals. Yet, as the year went on, I noticed other #IWSG bloggers I visited always answered the Question. I began to feel like the only kid on the playground, while all the other kids are jostling for elbow-room in the sandpit.


Long story, short, last month I answered the Question. It was fun. I imagined myself one of the big gun authors being asked a question about my writing career by a newspaper reporter.

December 7, the IWSG Question of the month – In terms of your writing career, where do you see yourself five years from now, and what’s your plan to get there?

Great question!

I see myself with the series, The Chronicles of Aden Weaver, finished and published. I see spin-offs from the series, evolving naturally. I can see the books being made into some sort of local production, either theatre or movie, or maybe artwork springing from it, or the series being made into some sort of video game.

I see myself blissful at work on the next book/s.


Have you heard of making a “vision board?” I saw the idea on an Oprah show back in the day. You create a pictorial poster of what you hope to achieve. I preferred writing down my dreams. I call mine a “wish list.” Each year, on my birthday (which was the day before yesterday) I update my wish list for future dreams and goals. For more than ten years now, at the bottom of each list, I’ve written the same line. “Peter Jackson turns my books into movies.” That’s a big dream, however if we’re talking about what I really want to achieve in five years, then!

My plan to get there is to keep on writing. Write. Write and learn. Learn and write.

I shall also keep on networking, which is a necessity these days, to be active on social media and create an active digital footprint. I’ll carry on blogging, tweeting, putting content on my YouTube channel, and pinning on Pinterest. I’ll keep on building my email list for my *Newsletter and putting out quality content.

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I think it’s important now that I have overcome my fear of public speaking to keep up the public speaking to improve my self-confidence levels.


Then, we come to the most important thing I intend to keep on doing. Those who have known me on the ether for a while will have heard this story before, however, I always find its worth repeating. Back when I was into multi-level marketing, our very wealthy, mega-successful, charismatic leader took me aside one time, to pass on a gem of her wisdom. I remember we were standing in the car-park, after an evening meeting.

She said, she was going to pass on the single most important thing I had to do.

‘I don’t mean just in business, I mean in life. Forget about the money, building a business is not about that. You must think one way and one way only. There is only one thing you need to do. And that is, Spread the Love. Everything you do, everything you say, every action every day, you Spread the Love. That’s all you need to do.’

I really took the message to heart. I went away from that night and I have applied that principle to everything I’ve done since. It works for me.


Talk to you later.

Keep on Creating!

Yvette K. Carol


‘New Zealanders by nature of our isolation just go ahead and do things our own way. That’s the New Zealand spirit.’ ~ Peter Jackson



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  1. davidprosser says:

    xxx Sending you massive hugs Yvette. xxx

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  2. ahtdoucette says:

    Yvette, you have such an awesome heart. Thanks for sharing some really good tips and advice along with your plans. It is very encouraging and uplifting to read this and be reminded of what really matters.

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    • yvettecarol says:

      Thank you, Anne! And, thanks for stopping by. I’ll pop over soonish. I’m glad you got something of value from the post – mission accomplished! Great question though, right? It really got me thinking 🙂

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  3. emaginette says:

    You sure have a longer list than I do. I love the vision board idea and I agree that sharing the love is they key to almost everything. 🙂

    Anna from elements of emaginette

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  4. Bun Karyudo says:

    I love the idea of Peter Jackson turning your stories into movies. That would be extremely cool! 🙂

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  5. Yvette, May all your dreams come true and keep spreading the love. 😍

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    • yvettecarol says:

      Aw, you’re a sweetheart, Clare. I’ve been visiting the other blogs and feeling perhaps I was shooting too high. Others have commented that they’re ‘just happy doing what they’re doing,’ they ‘don’t really mind what happens,’ etc. I’ve felt a bit anxious that I may have ‘asked for too much.’ However, in the last decade or so, I’ve put effort in to endeavouring to “aim for the stars,” because my beloved gran used to encourage me to do so when she was alive, however I never felt I could before I reached a certain age, and began to realize I had nothing to lose! 🙂
      Therefore, I really do appreciate your supportive comment.
      I try to repeat the “spreading the love” story whenever I get the chance – it’s such a vital message for these times. God bless you and Charlie this lovely festive season, Clare! 😀

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      • You are a writer and you should share that talent. Doing that will spread love to many people. I read your latest newsletter and went to check out the Birthday Buys your sister bought for you. Awesome!
        Blessings to you and your family, too, Yvette and keep writing!

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  6. yvettecarol says:

    Thanks, Clare. I will! Also, thank you so much for reading the newsletter and following along. Yay! It’s so nice to be among friends. I really look forward to compiling it and working on it each fortnight and it makes all the difference in the world to get such warm feedback. 🙂 Bless!


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